I was at a Mass earlier this week for people who are grieving, often the loss of a family member, sometimes a friend. As I looked out at the congregation, I started thinking about the extraordinary qualities of people who have suffered a loss, like the death of a child, a spouse, a sibling, a parent, a best friend, so many different groups but all united in their grieving.
These people are carrying on with their lives, shouldering the grief and loss, and somehow putting one foot in front of each other every single day. Often their grief has been unspeakable, but they kept on going. They have dealt with broken hearts, at times conflicted memories, other times profound questioning about Why, Why, Why?
During November, we remember those who have died. That is the right thing to do. But remember as well all those who are grieving. The quote at the top of this post expresses the daunting reality of a grieving mother. So many have struggled with this - and so many other losses. The grieving process is complicated and lengthy and erratic and so difficult. It never goes away, but it does get a little better over time.
I consider these grieving people heroic. I have such respect for them. When I see them, I instantly pray for them and just look at them with awe. They are extraordinary people. May God be good to them.
TODAY’s GRATITUDE: For the inspiration of so many extraordinary people who are working through their grief. Phenomenally good people.