I was greatly saddened by the recent death of Stephen Covey. This good and brilliant individual helped millions of people through his writings, especially his first major book, Seven Habits of Highly Effective People. I was fortunate to receive the Covey training in a number of areas and had the great privilege of being part of a group to whom he taught his eighth habit for the first time. His work has affected so many things that I do - and also serves as an irritating nudge of what I still need to do and how I need to do it.
One of his habits is "begin with the end in mind." This is, in essence, what God says to us when we come into the world. The end that God has in mind for us is heaven. This is our goal. It requires a lifelong focus and really should be one of the main criteria that we use to make our decisions. What a simple, but profound, way to look at life: Is this going to get me into heaven or not? When we get off focus, that is when and why we need to listen to the Scriptures, to listen to holy people, to pray, and to be sure that we are walking with God.
It is hard to keep this focus. Covey wants us to develop this habit in so many major things we do in life. Frankly, it is exhausting. There are so many distractions that blur the focus, so many times when it is just easier to do the easy thing. Spiritually, at the end of each day, it is a good thing to simply think about the day and our focus on heaven, the end God has in mind for us.
This came to me while I was watching part of the Cycling competition at the Olympics. While I am sure it is exciting (perhaps in the final mile), it does seem to be rather boring to watch. I could never watch whole thing. Just look at this vision for four hours at least:
Nonetheless, it is a way to understand our goal in following Jesus. We are all in this huge pack, multitude, heading for the end point. Once in a while, people move ahead of the pack and get closer (we call them saints). Some are stragglers. We pray harder for them. Yet each of the cyclists keeps going unless they crash - and even then we pray that they will get going again.
It is easy to crash. It is easy to burn out. It is easy to give up. It is easy to lose heart. The cyclists are helped over these great distances by simply being in the pack, picking up energy and momentum from each other. That is always a major function of the Church. We get energy and momentum when we come together for Mass. We get energy and momentum from the Eucharist, from the grace of God. Look around at Church - every single person is a sinner. Look around at the cyclists - every single one has done things that weren't perfect during the long distance. But they keep going - and so must we.
By making gentle jest of these competitions, I am in no way disparaging the extraordinary commitment that the athletes have, the unyielding determination, and the phenomenal focus on excellence. This may shock you, but I was never a formidable athlete. So I respect them and, in truth, am a little jealous of them. But I am proud of our fellow citizens who are in the Olympics and those who, though falling a little short, nonetheless succeeded well beyond most of us in keeping their end in mind. (Heck, when I was their age, I had a paper route - not exactly the Olympics!)
Begin with the end in mind. A practical goal for an Olympian, a necessary goal for a Christian. While watching the cycling seems like an event that will never end, living the way of Jesus does have an end point - heaven. May we all help each other reach that goal. That's our gold medal.